Don’t give in easily ok. Stay true to yourself. I’m speaking from personal experience. I once had this bf who made me believe that I loved him very much and that he was the one for me. I never noticed the red flags when he avoided planning for the future with me all the time.
But I gave him my virginity anyway. He kept begging and i couldnt say no anymore. After the deal, he became another person. He ignored my texts frequently, only making me happy when he wants sex. When we finally broke up, I was so traumatised and upset, I couldn’t open up to anyone.
I felt like a cheap whore and the most sinful person on earth. I really let down my parents and myself. To me it wasn’t just losing my virginity. I felt like I lost my values, beliefs and trust. So please, if you’re not ready don’t go for it. I spent almost 1.5 years trying to walk out of that shithole my ex threw me in. Don’t follow my footsteps.Â
Source: NUSWhisper