To people who blame negative people, have you thought why they become so negative?
I have my reasons to dislike naively positive people! Why? because, as you wished, I suffered from their naive “positive” decisions!
Have that family member who overspent and then borrow money every other month? (Can earn back one, can solve one! In the end also not them who solve what!) The friend who ask you if it’s ok if she quit her job to try be YouTuber when she is still in debt and have only 2 subscribers? (Just do it attitude, right?) The family member who thinks since they’re already getting medical treatment means it’s ok to do and eat whatever they want? And the one who thinks prayers solve everything? (There will be miracles, right?)
The friend who knows you’re dealing with anxiety issues due to social and financial stress but choose to think it’s just you being negative.
Most people are not born negative but trained/beaten by life to become one. And then whenever those negative people try to engage with a more positive person, they shun them and say “we don’t like negative people!” (Yes, they’re sooo positive when they did that!)
So what can the negative people who are struggling do? They can only go to each other for help or if they’re rich enough, go for professional help.
Sometimes I wonder why these naively positive people who burden people around them can get away with their crimes and still shun the ones who struggled after helping them clean up!