What should I do in this situation
Hey everyone, I don’t have any much friends or a marriage couple friends for an advice on this, what would you do if you find out that your neighbour is asking your wife on a text to be his fling, FYI he’s married and has kids.
I’m pretty disappointed that I thought he would be a good neighbour and things just got awkward and I’m mad about it.
My wife on the other hand rejects on what he asked for and it’s good she opened up and tell me about it. What should I do to him and her as a support as a husband?
Update: so basically the situation was him asking for a screwdriver from my home, my wife doesn’t know what kind of tools he needed as he was locked out of the house so she let him in first since she’s holding my 1 years old kid.
When he returned, knowing my wife holds my kid and my gate wasn’t locked, he let himself in the house without our permission.
Afterwards he then let himself comfortable by sitting on our home to start a conversation and start ranting to my wife about his relationship problems… telling her she wants to have revenge on his cheating wife by having a fling with other women.
My wife smells trouble for sure so in order to kick him out of the house since she’s feeling all uncomfortable, she then told a lie that her dads coming over so she passed her number or he asked for her number ( couldn’t recall) hence he then started to ask her question about her being his fling.
Netizens’ comments
- Tell his wife.
- I would say confront him but only if you’re confident enough to be intimidating and tell him off straight, otherwise he might go after your wife instead and blame/hurt her for ratting on him. Also try not to let your wife be alone too much. I see that he’s even forced his way into your house before, he smells like trouble ngl
- Time to put camera in your house for your safety sake and your wife too.