If you’re still married, you got no right to talk about love to another person.
To the married man who die die want to confess and even posted twice about it.
I’ve met a guy like you when I was in my early 20s. He was also my mentor. I was single during that time and didn’t notice the signs or red flags that he was interested in me. We did exactly what you did in your situation. Shared about ourselves. Meet up to talk about work. Having meals alone too.
He also often send me home as he drives and it was on the way. One day he confessed to me that he like me and proclaim he didn’t expect me to do anything about it. He also say his marriage is on the rocks and they will be getting a divorce. I did have a crush on him but not once did I plan to act on it as he is married in my eyes since the first day I knew him.
I foolishly confessed that I like him too and I also do not wish to act on it. He told me he will wait for me to be ready and asked that I wait for him.
We continued this flirty banter for a few more months till I found out he started seeing another female colleague in secret and turned out his wife is expecting a child. Needless to say I was shocked, hurt and embarrassed to be a fool for thinking a married man who can confess to another woman is going to have a solid character with integrity as a human being. Not too long after that, I asked for a transfer as I do not wish to be near him again. It’s been years, he is still married.
I don’t know you but you are not much different from the mentor I met. Your motive for wanting to confess to the lady is weak and fake. You are just looking for a woman to sooth your ego and take care of your sexual/emotional needs without taking any responsibility while still being married. Confessing is opening that door to the start of an affair. You plan to open that door. Don’t try to bluff netizens.
I hope you don’t have children. I will pity them for having you for a father figure.