Sore throat, my mom wants me to go to camp. Really ticked off with NS. Nv took a single day of sick leave in unit other than attending hospital appointments.
Yesterday, waking up I got a really bad sore throat with cough. Today it has gotten worse overall. I told her it hurts whenever I swallow anything or when drinking water. I told my mom that I want to go and see a doctor tomorrow.
She’s like no no don’t need. Then I told her if I go with sore throat to camp, I’ll face questions from ppl. I told her I’ll go see MO for that matter if she doesnt let me go to polyclinic.
She said don’t need. Dun mention it to ppl. Just hide it and do your work.
Im like really fed up wif what she says. I love her a lot, but I dont understand her fierce insistence on doing NS.
All the time she says men takes responsibility for everything. She says this is your duty & obligation. You must do it. Men dun stay at home. Says u r man, bear with it and do work.
Really need advise. She’s turning out to be as toxic as my superiors.
- why do you see a need to report to your mum your actions? she happen to be your commander in NS?
- Just go to the doctor? You’re a grown adult ffs
- Just go see the doctor yourself. Why need to tell your mother? Ask your mother go serve NS la LOLOL