need advice as a 2nd year NS girlfriend
i dont know if this is a universal experience amongst all NS GFs but….
my boyfriend used to be super clingy and emotional when he first entered OCS. he would always need me to call him to comfort him as he cried because of how he couldn’t cope with the change.
everytime he needed me, i would drop everything and divert my attention to him. including writing long paragraphs to reassure him almost everyday. and with that, he would always say how i am the best, how he wants to marry me , im his favourite person and that he would give me all the time i want once he ORDs.
now that hes in his second year, the time we have together is very limited. from calling everyday to texting a few times a day.
and not gonna lie, its been hard coping and i did give him a hard time over the fact that he didnt have alot of time for me.
we even went through a rough patch over the matter. but nonetheless ive learnt from my mistakes and i completely understand when he says he doesnt have enough time. and also been finding things to do when hes busy.
i always give him the benefit of the doubt when hes active on social media and hasn’t replied to my texts and i always try to do something nive for him whenever he books out (care packs, baked goods and hand made items!)
he has also found really awesome friends in camp and hes really enjoying his time in NS despite the fact that hes very very tired most of the time (which makes me very relieved).
but i cant help ignore the fact that he has been very impatient with me. although he says he loves me, he would be very disinterested when i tell him about my week.
it makes me feel bad whenever i ask for reassurance from him because he always looks so pissed when i do so. i don’t even know if he will uphold the promises he made when he needed me the most…
anyone have any advice as to what to do?