Ever since I started working they’ve been asking me to pay for electricity bills.
Previously they rarely on the aircon and will keep my remote. I will need to ask for permission to on the air con since young until about 22yo.
but ever since I started paying they on every night. And on months where I forgot to transfer the bills over they will start chasing me as if like I owe them.
I don’t mind paying and I feel good that I’m able to contribute and knowing they have a good temperature to sleep in every night warms my heart.
But they are so unappreciative n never thank me not even once. And my dad always says things like this is my house it’s my way or u get out.
Sometimes when we go out to eat and they pay the meal, if we go groceries shopping they will ask me to my own groceries and pay myself.
I’ve never been stingy on them I buy them things once in awhile but on my birthday they get me nothing not even a cake.
I don’t think saying this makes me an ungrateful person because “they gave me life” but something just doesn’t add up here and I’m so frustrated sometimes.
Please share with me your thoughts on this. I don’t think moving out is an option because 1) financially but also because if I do that I feel very unfilial…..