My parents went behind my back to make a “dating” profile
I’m gonna be 30 in 6 months. My parents are absolutely NOT happy with the fact that I’m single. Every time it’s the same conversation.
They’re old fashioned and care deeply about class and caste. They’ve seem to absorbed the idea that it’s my last chance, that everyone my age is married or whatever.
I argue I’m not ready for any of it until I’m OK. My needs are very different from theirs.
I found out that they made a “marriage” profile with some dating site thing for me. They’ve used my name, obviously- my LinkedIn pictures, my credentials, everything. Everything I didn’t want to be put out. To say I’m angry is an understatement. I don’t know how to approach this subject.
I’ve also been told (by them) that I overreact a lot.
What can I say without hurting their feelings but also making them aware that I consider this a serious broach of trust.
Idk if I’m right I’m feeling this way or that I’m overreacting. I have no one irl I can talk to and I really can’t tell what a “normal person’s” reaction to certain situations would be.
Any advice would be much appreciated, thank you.