How do you deal with a childish petty colleague who blocks phone contact everywhere because of a personal feud? I had already apologised and admitting my part of the fault and what I did wrong, such as messaging too much outside of work hours.
However on his part, he got no humility to admit his own faults on his part, thinking that hes flawless and blameless in the whole issue. He doesnt see where he went wrong, including being delusional in trying to justify his wrong doings of gossiping as being correct.
He intentionally avoids and refuses to resolve the conflict regardless of how many times I tried to bring it up to him and our mentor and now our professor for resolvation.
It affects work because we are working in a lab and everybody has to be contactable when running experiments in case of emergencies. The situation had escalated to our professor’s level but he is too nice and doesnt solve the problem.
The colleague is a mature 26 year old phd student, like seriously. Only primary school kids would play the block unblock I dont friend you kind of game.
Here are what netizens think:
- i wldnt even b bothered. i’ll just do my part of the work.Problem has been raised to your professor. Anything happens, just shift the blame to him for being uncontactable and a non team player.
- This kind study until sot one, don’t have social skills one