Recently, a girl presumably a Xmm posted on facebook saying that she got cheated by a budget airline pilot.
She said that she first met the pilot on Tinder, and they have been talking frequently and meeting despite his busy flying schedule.
He has made it known to her that he is still close friends with his ex-gf.
She initially felt bad about chasing him away because of his ex-gf, but later realised that they have still been together all the while.
Here’s what she said:
“i got to know a guy from tinder in 2018 and he seemed like a really great catch. He is a pilot flying with a budget airline, so the flights are short and he will text me throughout the day as long as he is not flying. he will also try to meet me after his flights or arrange to have a short coffee even if he might be busy that day.
From the time we met, he was always upfront about being close friends with his ex-gf.
However, there was once i spotted him having lunch with his ex-gf and they did not look like they were just friends.
When i asked him about it, he says that it’s bcos she was still into him and wants to get back together. After that, he started asking me who i was out with when i spotted him and got jealous that i was out with a male colleague for lunch. it was rather sweet, so i did not question his actions further.
A few weeks later, i saw a picture of him and ex on someone’s IG story (cos they were helping out to be extras on a video). i sent him the pic and commented to him that his ex is really pretty and they he should’ve try again with her since she still into him.
He just replied ok and disappeared.
For the longest time, i blamed myself for chasing him away. But i eventually found out that he has been together with his “ex” the whole time we were dating.
He was able to meet me so freely at the beginning because she was overseas! and all that time he suddenly cancelled cos he was “busy studying” was actually bcos she her time was suddenly available.
i am sharing this because i recently found out that i was not the only person that he has told the “ex” story to and dated while being with her. I met someone who said that he tried to ask her out before during the same time frame.
i am sharing this because his gf seems like a really nice girl who doesn’t deserve a scumbag like him. They have been together for so many years and looks like it’s heading for marriage which will be a great mistake for her.
i feel responsible to let her know what he has been doing behind her back. but i also feel bad if i am messing things up for them. Should i?”
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