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PLUS SIZED GUY ASKS IF PLUS SIZED WOMEN STILL DATES THEM

A guy who is on the bigger side took to social media to ask if there are still women on the bigger side who will be willing to date a plus sized guy nowadays.

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He shares that he weighs almost 100kg and is about 1.75metres tall and is finding it harder to find a woman who is willing to date him nowadays.

Here is the story

“I’ve always been more attracted to women who are on the heavier side. Fat, chubby, “a little extra”, curvy, voluptuous. And definitely not just the socially acceptable kind of big where if there is fat anywhere other than the bosoms or bottom, she’s a no-go.

I’ve been finding it incredibly hard to find women who will date me because of my weight (100kg, 1.75m), even when I’m trying to find women of the same or even bigger weight.

Everywhere I see any kind of fat acceptable, it’s only for women. I never see a fat man just dating a normal-sized person or even a fat man dating a fat woman. Thin women date thin men, and fat women date thin men.

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So where so I fit in? Do I really have to be under 100kg to date someone who is at or above 100kg?”

What netizens think

  • It depends on the person. I’m fat. I was skinnier when I was dating, but still probably small fat. I’ve been attracted to a range of bodies, but I am generally less attracted to fat men. I guess it makes me a hypocrite…. But I am also a single parent who would prefer to date someone who doesn’t have kids, so I’m a hypocrite all over the place. However, I wouldn’t automatically say no to someone because they are chubby, that’s just stupid.
  • Women get a lot of guys who are willing to act interested for the sake of having relations with them. This gives the perception that they have a lot of options, which isn’t true if they are actually looking for a relationship but I suppose it’s hard to see that when you are in the moment, hence the prerequisites. The answer is do you actually want to date women who are like this? Ironically I think for most guys the answer is no.

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