I was in a toxic relationship with my girlfriend for nearly two years, and it was one of the worst experiences of my life.
I had been through a lot of ups and downs with her, and I was tired of being taken for granted and taken advantage of.
One day, we had a huge argument and she told me to kneel down to her at Orchard Road to apologize.
I was taken aback. I mean, who even does that?
I thought about it for a while, and I just couldn’t bring myself to do it. I was so angry that someone could even ask me to do something like that. I mean, I don’t even kneel to my parents, you think I will kneel to you?
So, I told her to f off and said bye. I didn’t care what she thought of me or what other people thought of me. I just wanted to be free from her and her ridiculous demands.
I didn’t expect what happened next. I made a scene. I started shouting at her in the middle of Orchard Road. I told her that she was a typical China woman who thought she could control men with her demands. I even called her a gold digger.
I was so angry and it felt so good to finally let all my emotions out.
I didn’t care if people were staring at me or if they were judging me. I was relieved that I didn’t have to put up with her anymore.
After that, I never looked back. I never regretted my decision to stand up to her and say no. I was finally free from her control and that felt amazing.
It’s been over a year since that incident, and I’ve never been happier. I’m in a much healthier relationship now and I’m so grateful that I was able to stand up for myself and break free from my toxic past.
I’m glad I didn’t kneel down to her at Orchard Road. It would have been a huge mistake and I’m glad I didn’t make it. I’m glad I was able to stand up for myself and be strong enough to move on.
My experience taught me a valuable lesson. No matter what someone tells you to do, you always have the right to stand up for yourself and say no. No one has the right to control you or make you do something you don’t want to do.
So, if you ever find yourself in a situation like this, don’t be afraid to take a stand. Be strong, be brave, and don’t let anyone control you.