I just caught my husband cheating on me. I’m 10 weeks pregnant
I’m still in shock from everything but I thought I’d write this out since it’s fresh on my mind. I’m 10 weeks pregnant and I (f25) was sick in bed (throwing up, headache) all day/night.
My husband (m31) had a friend come over & they decided to go out drinking. I woke up around 5am to find I was still alone in bed. I started calling my husband a bunch with no answer. I had a strong gut feeling telling me to get up and go see why he’s not back.
I walk into our living room and find his friend passed out at the table. I wake him up and ask where my husband was. He said he had no idea.
I look around and I see him sneaking around. I immediately knew what was happening. I eventually got ahold of his phone and got in my car and drove off.
I saw the most recent person he had been talking to was a girl (f22). I read through all the messages with her and decided to message her.
Eventually she gave me her number and we talked on the phone for a little. I felt bad for the poor girl getting sucked into all of this drama. I told her that he was married and has a baby on the way. She felt bad about everything but I assured her it wasn’t her fault.
The real story is that he met her at the bar. They made out in her car and he wanted to hook up in the back seat. She didn’t want to.
At this point I’m not sure what to do. I have about $500 in my bank account and I’m terrified. I can’t stay with him. I have a dog with him as well and I don’t want to leave her.