A man shared a story about his girlfriend on NUSWhisper Facebook group. According to him, he thinks that his girlfriend is a psycho.
Why a Psycho?
In his post, the man said that his girlfriend is super needy and bad-tempered too. She is rude and aggressive most of the time and always fights with him for no reason. When he doesn’t respond to her, she will start to insult him and even scream at the top of her lungs while standing in front of him.
You are not man enough?
According to him, his girlfriend thinks that woman has all the right to be rude and to behave like a crazy woman when they are angry. She even told him that he is not man enough by saying this.
” My father can take it from my mother why you can’t take it from me? You not as a man as him is it?”
In his post:
“I think my GF is seriously psycho.
She is super needy but I always give in to all her whims and fancies. I dare say I often go above and beyond and take lots of initiatives to plan for her, surprise her and gift her.
Despite all my efforts, her temper is like the wind. Can pick up at any point in time even if no reason and completely disproportional. When this happens she is super rude and aggressive. My response is always the same, stay calm and reiterate to her the way she is behaving is not acceptable.
They say it takes two to create a fight. But no, in this case, it really takes one only?! Even as I don’t return fire at all to her repeated escalations and insults which get more and more ridiculous and disproportionate, she will keep upping the ante until she finally abruptly blocks me after screaming her lungs out or writing unmentionable rude things to me over text. This block will typically run for a few hours to overnight.
After that, she will make it sound like my fault. Saying I got angry at the most trivial and insignificant things. In her mind, she has every right to be rude to me so to her it’s insignificant. Actually, to her, it’s not even called rude as that’s “just how women behave when they are angry. My father can take it from my mother why you can’t take it from me? You not as man as him is it?”
Seriously gosh. I really needed to get that off my chest.
How does one deal with a GF who continues fighting and escalating even when you are not fighting back? Is it wrong of me to calmly remind her not to be rude when she is hurling ridiculous insults at me?”
