A Singaporean man recently took to Facebook to voice his frustration after his psychotic girlfriend gave him so many problems that he feels that his death is the only way to solve this issue. His girlfriend even threatened to kill herself as well.
Here is the full story.
When I tell her I need some space she tells me that I don’t love her.
When I ask for a break to think through our rs through she breaks down and threatens to kill herself.
When she pours out her anxiety on me I feel myself drowning.When I mention that I’m feeling down, she says I’m trying to guilt trip her.
When I suggest therapy, she says that I’m calling her crazy How did I get here? When I was courting her she was the most cheerful and calm person I knew. Our mutual friends and my own judgement thought we were such a good match. The first six months were bliss. When she came to me with her worries about work a year into our rs, I assured her “I’m here for you”. Now those words are thrown at me any time I’m in a meeting or out with friends. I will die inside if I stay. I will be crushed by the guilt if she hurts herself due to my leaving.
I dare not confide in our mutual friends because they think the world of her. My buddies are at a lost too because it’s not their place to intervene. They lend me their ears but when I spend too long with them she begins calling. Anonymous posts like this have recently been the most cathartic release I have.
I never had anxiety before this. Now all I can think is that her feelings are my responsibility and I’m not enough. I never thought about suicide before. Now I wonder if the only escape I have is death.