Hey all. So basically, I (20f) have been with my boyfriend (23m) for a few months now and things are great, except S, it really hurts sometimes. I am left with ugly bruises that don’t go away for a while (thighs, hips, chest mostly). He says it’s because I’m too skinny (160 like 50kgs, so not that skinny). Either way, it’s hard for me to gain weight and I don’t really feel a need to. It’s just like painful sometimes when we do iot.
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Also, the last time we were intimate I wasn’t really turned on (my fault, I just had a lot on my mind) and it still hurts inside, how do I treat that?
Thanks!!
Here are what netizens think:
- Has he even tried to be very gentle during s? If he’s not taking into consideration the fact that s hurts and needs to be nice and slow so both of you enjoy it, then he’s not doing it right. I don’t think being skinny is the main cause of your bruises.
- Honey. S hurts because you’re having it with a man who doesn’t care if you’re enjoying yourself or if he hurts you. Dump him. If a man is willing to use your body to pleaasre while you’re not turned on to the point where you are still experiencing internal pain, then he doesn’t care about you.
- Don’t have s when you aren’t into it. It’s not your job to have s no matter what. Find a new boyfriend who is gentle. Don’t get attached to these rough, entitled, idiots.
- You are “underweight” enough that you should be checked out by a doctor to make sure those symptoms aren’t symptoms of a larger health issue. There are some conditions that can cause easy bruising and slow healing that are more common with poor nutrition/low body weight, such as anemia & blood pressure issues.