A local man took to Facebook to shared his negative experience he had with his local Singaporean girlfriend. He stated that his girlfriend refused to clean her house whenever he’s over and scolded him after he gave her some feedback.
Here is the full story.
“My gf usually hangs out at my place and I have always made an effort to make her feel at home. For example, I made closet space for her, got her towels, toiletries and all that, and also clean the house thoroughly before each of her visits. Even though the place is mine, I’ve always referred to it as our place. Last week we decided I would hang out at her place instead. Is it wrong of me to be quite disappointed that she made no effort at all to make me feel at home?
I was asked to put my clothes on the floor as no closet space for me, there were no toiletries or towel for me either. Moreover, the place was filthy and she clearly made no effort at all. Now, by itself, to me, all these are not that big a deal, but this is where the crazy part started. We got into an argument and barely one minute into the argument, she pulled the this-is-my-house-i-can-say-whatever-i-want-and-you-better-shut-up-card on me. Like seriously? Her logic was if I am under her roof, I better play nice and listen to her even if she is very unreasonable and I have no right at all to say anything back to her, just because we are now at her place. She even went on to say “you are in my house now, if you don’t shut up, get out!” All along, I was speaking to her in a normal tone of voice while she was screaming her lungs out at me.
I tried reasoning out with her and said in over one year of her spending time at my place, I have never said anything of this sort to her. She said “so what? you are in my house now so shut up’. I seriously don’t get her logic. Does it really matter whose house we are at when we have an argument? Also, am I wrong to be seriously hurt by what she said and how I was treated?”
Source: NUSwhisper