Option A: A bad boy who smokes, drinks heavily, has no concrete plans in life, and is looking to date girls but isn’t willing to settle down. But he is funny, easy to get along with, and makes my heart pound fast whenever I see him. I know dating him might risk myself dealing with a heartbreak later on but he makes me feel excited when I’m around him.
Option B: A guy who obviously has his shit together – he has concrete goals in life, a proper work life balance, and is the typical guy whom you will bring home to your parents. He is an interesting guy as well, but not the kind who will actually make my heart flutter. I would say I’m interested in him but only because of his admirable qualities and the fact that I know if I were to date him, our relationship could potentially be a long lasting one, maybe even till marriage.Who would you recommend going for and why?