A local girl recently posted on Facebook on how she was frustrated that all her ex-boyfriends made gaming their priority instead of spending time with her.
Here is the full story.
Super long rant ahead!
Why is it that after a guy gets a girl he doesn’t give a fk to maintain her anymore?
Its so irritating. Happened with my ex, and now my current and soon to be exbf. Both chased me like crazy for months. My ex would buy me whatever food I was craving for. Example I would just subtly mention that I was craving waffles, he would spend some time researching good waffle cafes and bring me there on dates. Or buy me liangcha whenever I’m not well. But suddenly all that care disappeared because he started gaming again (before we got together he stopped gaming for me). He then cheated on me (with an ugly gamer girl he found online) 6/7months into the relationship and said because I was too controlling with his game time. Bro wtf you’re the one who said you’ll stop gaming??? And they broke up after 3 months of dating. wow…
Then my now bf, used to be super sweet. When I have cramps, he’ll make sure I drink lot’s of warm water and buy hot packs for me. Now he forgets when I tell him, and even forces me to drink cold drinks because “waste his money”. He used to always take good pictures of me and post our couple pics online, and I asked him once why he did that he would say because I want to show you off to the world those kind of sweet stuff. We were the perfect couple, perfect offline and online. He used to be so into me, called and texted me everyday to chat for awhile, watched movies with me online, played fun mobile games together. And its not that I never reciprocate. I did. Alot too. Now its his holiday and all he wants to do is game and doesn’t give a damn about me. No more care and concern, no more pictures. Yes, it ain’t that bad, at least he ain’t cheating. But its so irritating. I don’t even get a call from him at all now. Now its just one worded replies and no initiation on his side. He doesn’t even want to go out on dates or even come to my house to chill. He says either I come over to hang, or we don’t hang at all.. Wtf. And when I come over he doesn’t even fetch me or cook for me or bring me out to eat. He’s just gaming every moment and I even have to cook for him when I’m at his house because he’s “too busy”. And when he’s done gaming, he wants to have sex and when I say no because I not feeling it, he’d get mad and ask then I come for what. The fk? So I asked him what’s with the change. His reply was you can’t have honeymoon period all the time. Wtf kind of excuse is that. Just say you no longer care about this relationship lah. No more effort on his part. But wow to his friends ALOT of effort. Can afford to go out with them, talk to them on the phone for hours, even post insta story and pictures of them (last time he post anything about me was more than a year ago… sooo)
Some guys really no respect and consideration for their gf. I’m not super unreasonable that I don’t let my bf game, I do, I even join him sometimes, but at least keep your priorities in check? If games are really that important, go fk and marry your games lah. Immature pricks who don’t know how to treasure relationships. Disgusting creatures. Now I know why some gamer guys don’t have gfs. Can’t believe why I even wasted so much time with them. They ain’t even attractive or in shape in the first place. Time to ditch mine and find a more mature and considerate man.