This one damn pain but also damn shiok to share sia. So I was dating this girl – Daphne. Wah, at first she super sweet one. Always say she like me because I sincere, hardworking, and “not like those F-boys who only know how to play play.” I treat her like queen — always fetch her after work, remember her bubble tea order (she suka pearl milk tea with less sugar), and even tahan tahan go hawker for her favourite carrot cake. All that boyfriend 101 stuff, you know lah.
Then one day out of sudden, she call me and say she need to “re-evaluate what she wants in life.” I straight ask her: “You found someone else ah?” She act innocent say “No lah, just need some space to think.” But I not stupid mah, my instinct say confirm got problem one.
One week later, I scroll IG, then I see her tagged in photo with this shiok sendiri guy – drive some black Mercedes like taxi, wear watch so big bigger than my toilet bowl lid. Confirm got money, lah. Later ask around, this guy is some rich dude from Bukit Timah estate, makan makan at those fancy restaurant I cannot even pronounce, like “Le Bernardin” or something. Wah, confirm kena replaced liao.
After that, she unfollow me on Instagram. Ok lah, no problem, I move on. I block some feelings, focus on work and gym. But three weeks later, my phone beep – got message from her. “Hey… can we talk?” I think, aiyo, what now?
Meet up, then she start crying. She say the rich guy memang really rich, but also got 3 other girls — one already pregnant. Wah, Daphne kena played until no chance to fight back. She cry and say, “I thought he love me, I thought I was special.”
Wah, inside my heart got mixed feelings sia. Of course I feel bad for her lah. But at the same time, I also feel karma is damn efficient lor. You play play with people’s feelings, one day kena like that also normal lah.
I calm calm tell her, “I hope you find someone who really values you next time, not just big car and fancy watch. That kind of love not steady one.” Then I delete her number, block her on WhatsApp. Now I only chase money and peace of mind. Girls who want fast car and fake love can keep their drama to themselves lah.
Life got better things to focus on. Now I wake up every day, work hard, earn own money, no more headache about who play who. Later if got chance, maybe find someone steady one who appreciate me for who I am, not just my wallet or my bubble tea knowledge.