My brother who is 27 is currently engaged to his 25 y.o fiancèe.
He bought her a new phone for valentine’s and asked my boyfriend who’s trained in computer and software to install a hidden tracking app on the phone so his fianceè won’t see it or notice.
I overheard them talking and when I entered the room they went silent. I waited till my brother left then talked to my boyfriend, he denied having this conversation with my brother first then, admitted to installing the app on the phone.
I told him he and my brother were in the wrong because this is a huge breach of privacy. he said he has nothing to do with it and advised me to stay out of it as well. but I said I want to tell my brother’s fiancèe.
My boyfriend argued with me about being nosy and intrusive and told me to stay out of it and let them deal with their own issues. But I thought that was unfair to my future sister in law since she’s the one working, paying bills and installments and this is how she is treated?
My boyfriend told me gtfo with this attitude and again, said I should stay of it because it does not in any way concern me. I don’t know I feel horrible after hearing about what my brother did and since I have a good relationship with his fiancee I can’t help but feel guilty and want to tell her.
I did told her and it was a nightmare, the wedding might be off. I’m feeling guilty
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Tell her. But also have your phone checked out, cos your BF is throwing out CRAZY red flags.
wow, this actually never occured to me. also seeing several comments saying the same thing I’ll definately be checking my phone. My boyfriend tends to do things that cause me to side eye him sometimes. this one is definately nit okay.
Your boyfriend really said you were being intrusive, after helping put a tracking device on her phone?!!?
The irony of him calling her intrusive when he’s putting a tracker on someone else’s phone is just too much.