Kumar, a well-known figure in Singapore’s entertainment scene, is famous for his larger-than-life persona as a drag queen and comedian. However, beyond the glitz and glamour of the stage, many are unaware that Kumar leads an ordinary life as a family man.
In a surprising revelation, Kumar recently shared the story of his journey as a parent, shedding light on a side of him that few have witnessed before.
Kumar’s Son: A Hidden Chapter in His Life
In a heartwarming viral video produced by Our Grandfather Story (OGS), Kumar unveiled a significant part of his personal life. The video has garnered over 3,600 shares on Facebook, resonating with viewers who were touched by Kumar’s story.
In this intimate portrayal, Kumar introduced his son, Sathin, who has been a part of his life for the past 11 years.
Sathin, now 30 years old, unexpectedly entered Kumar’s life when he turned up at Kumar’s doorstep as an 18-year-old. Sathin, the younger brother of one of Kumar’s friends, sought refuge after a falling out with his biological father.
Despite initially being skeptical about taking in a child, especially since Kumar openly admits to not being fond of kids, Kumar opened his home and heart to Sathin.
Sathin’s presence in Kumar’s life came with its fair share of challenges. The young man had been struggling with anger management issues, which ultimately led to his departure from his biological family.
Kumar, determined to provide a stable environment for Sathin, embarked on a journey to guide him and help him overcome his anger-related problems.
As an unconventional parent figure, Kumar employed various strategies to connect with Sathin and create a nurturing home environment.
Realizing that Sathin needed guidance and positive role models, Kumar introduced him to ex-convicts, hoping that their stories would dissuade Sathin from a potentially destructive path.
Additionally, Kumar purchased a PlayStation 4 for Sathin, as he believed that providing an engaging and enjoyable pastime would keep his son away from negative influences.
Misunderstandings
Kumar’s decision to take in Sathin raised eyebrows and invited misunderstandings from society. Some individuals, unable to grasp the depth of their bond, questioned the nature of their relationship with one former friend asking him if he had “touched” the boy.
Kumar, who openly identifies as gay, vehemently defended their connection, emphasizing that one’s orientation does not determine their ability to be a responsible and loving parent.
Sathin himself dismissed the doubts, drawing a parallel between his relationship with Kumar and that of a typical parent-child dynamic.
A Journey of Healing and Redemption
Kumar’s commitment to raising Sathin well stems from his own troubled childhood experiences. Recounting his past, Kumar revealed that he had been a victim at the hands of his alcoholic father after his mother left.
Determined to break the cycle and provide the love and support he never received, Kumar has dedicated himself to being the parent he wished he had. Through his journey with Sathin, Kumar has found healing and an opportunity to rewrite his own narrative.
For Kumar, family is the cornerstone of his life. Despite the pain he endured due to his father’s actions, Kumar ensured that he was surrounded by loved ones during his battle with cancer.
His sisters, who continue to be a part of his life, visit him regularly, offering companionship and lighthearted conversations. Kumar’s only regret is that he never had the chance to tell his father that he had forgiven him.
As for Sathin, their bond has grown so strong that every time Kumar travels abroad, he calls his son upon arrival, bringing joy to both of them.
The unexpected journey of parenthood has profoundly impacted Kumar. It has revealed to him the boundless capacity for love that he possesses and the transformative power of a family connection.
Kumar encourages others to recognize the importance of nurturing relationships and cherishing the love shared among family members.