Nadim van der Ros, otherwide more commonly known as Stefanie Sun’s husband, might not be a household name for most Singaporeans initially.
However, his journey from adoption in Jakarta to becoming an Auxiliary Security Trooper in the Singapore Armed Forces Volunteer Corps (SAFVC) is a tale of purpose and service, according to PIONEER.
Early Life and Adoption
Van der Ros’s story begins in Jakarta, Indonesia, where he was born and subsequently placed for adoption. Supported by an unknown benefactor for a year, he was later adopted by Dutch parents residing in Asia. This early experience laid the foundation for his unique perspective on life and community.
After spending two formative years in Singapore, van der Ros developed a profound connection with the country. Despite life leading him to England and later Hong Kong, it was in Singapore that he felt a sense of belonging, eventually meeting Stefanie Sun through mutual friends, culminating in their marriage in 2011.
In 2010, van der Ros made a significant career shift, leaving behind a successful marketing career to establish a consulting firm dedicated to assisting social organizations with brand strategy. His motivation was rooted in a desire to express gratitude for the privileges he had enjoyed by serving others.
Joining SAFVC and Humanitarian Efforts
In 2021, he took another leap, joining the SAFVC. According to van der Ros, this experience has provided him with a remarkable clarity of purpose. Beyond basic training, he also completed the Singapore Red Cross’ Overseas Disaster Deployment Training. His belief that humanitarian work is “critical to keeping Singapore secure” reflects his commitment to both local and global communities.
During a humanitarian trip to Sri Lanka, van der Ros had a poignant experience visiting the Sri Lanka Singapore Friendship College. Established with funding from the Singapore Red Cross after the 2004 tsunami, the school’s marching band playing Singapore’s national anthem left a lasting impression on him.
Reflecting on his experiences, van der Ros emphasizes the belief that our homeland is worth protecting, whether as a volunteer soldier or through humanitarian efforts. For him, volunteering goes beyond an act; it’s a calling—a life filled with purpose and contribution.