After meeting people from various walks of life, I have come to realise the distinction between contented and secure individuals versus those who are not. Often, the former is a significant factor contributing to a person’s success in life as well. Many have heard of the term “mindset” and how it shapes an individual, but it’s essential to recognise that one’s mindset reflects their lens on the world.
Have you ever been quick to judge someone or overly critical of them? Perhaps the individual in question is ten or twenty years younger than you and appears to possess material items that you couldn’t have attained ten or twenty years ago. As a result, you might be quick to assume that the person received a gift from someone or that it’s their parents’ money, and you treat them based on your perspective, which stems from a sense of scarcity. However, someone who could easily acquire similar material possessions might not perceive them in the same way, as they share a similar position in life. This is because they view the world through a different lens- “half cup full”.
My point is that when you approach life with a perspective of “been there, done that” or “I can do it, I have it,” you’ll find yourself resonating with like-minded individuals. Conversely, when you view the world with a “half-cup empty” lens, you’ll constantly find issues with people or things around you. This perspective can lead to a self-fulfilling prophecy because when your brain consistently sees things in a certain way, your thoughts can shape your actions, leading you to attract and surround yourself with similar-minded individuals.
So, the next time you’re tempted to pass judgment or be overly critical, take a moment to consider your perspective. Allow space and time for the benefit of the doubt.
This is more of a ramble, but it reflects my personal thoughts based on encounters with many such people. I hope this topic sparks some reflection and contributes to making the world a better place. Thank you.