I’m quitting my toxic job tomorrow via text as my boss humiliated me today
My boss always had it out for me since i started a year ago, she was never really friendly and never really spoke to me, never really said hello or goodbye but maybe the odd morning we would say hello to one another.
It’s a small cafe and it was obvious that we didn’t really fit each other’s vibes so i thought if i did my own thing and she did hers we wouldn’t have any issues. BOY i was wrong.
Today on shift i was extremely busy with stuff to do as we were closing, i forgot to turn off the switch to the toilet and my boss tells me to switch it off as customers have walked in (it’s a staff room sorta)
she then proceeds to grill me on how i never listen or have any respect for her.
I ofc was like wtf it’s a light switch but she proceeds to tell me that her and the other manager have been talking and apparently i’ve said some nasty things and that i don’t want to be there anymore and how it wasn’t really working out anymore.
I was extremely confused and i asked her to elaborate on those things which she claimed I said and we could sort out any misunderstandings like adults to which she denied
when i kept pressing saying how i had a right to know if it was an obvious issue to her, she then proceeded to power trip me and tell me that she was one in charge.
I was extremely overwhelmed at the situation as it had came out of nowhere and asked her if we could move the conversation somewhere private as i was started to get upset, which she denied (it was in front of my co workers and customers)
i started crying from being overwhelmed from the confrontation and she didn’t care one bit.
She then proceeded to bring up a time where i had called in sick late to my shift, and other little things i did that had no relevance to the conversation
i felt that she was interrogating me and i told her i didn’t have to explain myself if i call in sick and that she can think what she likes.
It felt like she was nitpicking me. I told her i had no issue not working there anymore if it was something she wanted and told her i wanted no obvious conflict though if she wanted me to stay.
She said she was willing to start clean next week with me.
Through thinking i realised that she was nothing but a middle aged price picking on a kid. So f that i’m quitting tomorrow.