I recently found out that my bf was cheating on me.
When I had found out I was HYSTERICAL. I was a sobbing mess and the only thing I could think of was to find one of my friends to show her the screenshots I was sent of him cheating.
I had told her that they made me too upset to look at and asked if I could log into my Instagram account on her phone so she could help me figure out if they were real or not. She agreed, so I logged in and went back to class. Once class was over, I went to go find her and she revealed to me that she had actually messaged the girl that he cheated on me with.
I wasn’t upset even though she had done it without my permission. This whole situation has put me in a bad place mentally for the past few days and my friend knew this. When I told her that I didn’t know what to do, she told me to leave him.
I understand why she told me to leave him but I also know that she has never liked my bf. Fast forward to last night when she and I were talking to each other over text. She was telling me how she hated me bf and I brought up that she had “harassed” him for a while in the beginning of our relationship. She WENT OFF at me.
She told me that she had never harassed him. I brought up the fact that she would edit pictures of him and send them to him, and I know that this made him uncomfortable because he took all of his posts on Instagram down.
She told me that I don’t know what harassment is because if I did I wouldn’t be accusing her. I told her to “cool it” because she went from talking crap to my bf to just being rude to me. I explained to her that I wasn’t in a good enough place mentally to handle this and that she was making things worse.
She just replied that she hoped that she was being rude and that my feelings were hurt.