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Many things have evolved and changed, many people are getting ‘better’ in terms of their actions, behavior, and discrimination. That is, they know how they should deal with these issues the proper way, they do not show it.
A simple analogy, when we were young, some people resort to physical abuse because it is easy and simple. Over the years, they learned that it is ‘illegal’, and evidence can be left behind easily, so they resort to other forms, verbal abuse, social abuse, relationship abuse and so on, where they can get away easily. Afterall there is never a guarantee in any kind of relationships, you can take someone trust, take away everything they have including material gains or immaterial gains and break it off because you are free to do so – there are no legal bindings.
Sorry for side track, ok back to the topic on why I raised this up.People nowadays will not even talk about it, they will not show it. Instead, they would merely push it off to another factor happily and easily.
Can they not judge base on height/weight/appearance etc? Its alright lets just pretend that I don’t like you because our personality clash/you are not successful enough/any other reason since you do not have any evidence, rights to judge my rationale anyway.
For example, you can be a self-made millionaire, which is quite special in Singapore. But if someone were to say that you are not able to provide them a sense of financial security, you can complain about them all you like, so what? They have every right to say that statement too.
You can be 1.8m or 40kg, but they can still say things such as I want a 2m or 30kg. Who are you to stop them or criticise their thinking?
Lastly to end off, the easiest way to witness this is to always apply for a job, where you can have all the qualifications, work experience, testimonials and references and whatever, asking for a salary below you(eg degree holder ask for diploma and diploma asking for ITE) but no they will not choose you because
You are ugly.
And by HR standards, they do not even need to tell you anything.
Source: NusWhisper