My wife cheated on me at the end of 2022. She met the man online, and uses telegram to communicate with him (I say this in the present tense because I’m not sure that her relationship or cheating is done).
When I found out, I confronted her and she admitted it. She also stated that it was my fault for her cheating since I’ve been non-existent in our marriage for a long period of time.
As a result of her cheating, I don’t trust her and I don’t feel like she gives a shit. I also feel like she doesn’t want to be in the marriage any longer and is just hoping I request a divorce so she can say it’s my fault.
Wondering if anyone here has experienced this type of situation before or similar – and how did you go about:
1)talking with your partner about it
2)trusting your partner again
3)are sneaky people inherently suspect or cheating or looking for another partner
Here are what netizens think:
- Reconciling is done correctly or not at all. Rug sweeping infidelity corrects nothing. And why reconciling often fails and the cheater continues with hiding it better or renewing it later after the vigilance dies down.
- If they are still in contact with affair partner or balk at doing any requirement, they aren’t remorseful.
- It’s over bro. This is something you’ll never heal from, and you deserve a better partner than that. It’ll hurt for a while, but you gotta let her go. Just remember that eventually the pain will stop and you’ll move on. It’ll make you a stronger man mentally, and possibly even physically if you start lifting weights to take your mind off her. Good luck brother, I feel your pain. Stay positive, stay focused on the day when the fog clears, and just remember that that day will for sure come