My [32F] perfect husband [35M] is getting too attractive and now I’m afraid to lose him
I have been with my SO forever, we met in our early twenties. We were a pretty even match back then but things have really changed.
We supported each other through everything, university etc. He very well educated now with masters degree in science and I’m a nurse. We have 2 wonderfull kids, economically stable and can afford to travel.
I also found 20 kg extra weight and it showed so about 2 years ago I went all in and lost 10 kg in a very short time.
My husband was extremely impressed and very supportive and also started training as he said he was inspired by my succes.
Today I’m no longer dieting and gained 4 kg again, so still a not loss. He however is still working out and really takes care of himself and he looks awesome… as in way out of my league awesome… this has made me extremely insecure and I have talked with him about my insecurities and he said he would never leave and he loved me all the rights thing but I still felt worried. I kind of said he should maybe train a little less, but he just replied we should lift each other up, not down and he would support me in dieting or any other thing I would do and I should support him in training..
He has started to live a more full live with hobbies a d activities and a lot of socializing at work.
I fear that he will realize can do so much better and leave. I miss my old husband who laid in the sofa with a chubby dad bod.