In November – December I found out that my dad was cheating on my mom for 2 years with my teacher(Not a school teacher just some random girl who taught me and my brother tuition) after a bit my mom goes to stay with her parents after she confronted dad about the cheating.
My dad started saying what he did was fine and she shouldn’t have to apologise for anything that he did. My mom divorced him and I found out about this in December 23th and my dad has still not told us about what he did, thinking we do not know anything (me and my older brother haven’t told him we know only our oldest brother has)
My dad keeps trying to himself look good for out mom for example im gonna buy a gift to my mom and he says “tell ur mom I bought that” it annoys me a lot and I don’t see him as the person I looked up to before.
My dad also spread rumours about my mom stealing his money and more nasty rumours and it just pissed me off more. (My dad always beat me and my siblings when we were kids) I have trouble showing emotions and I have anxiety because of him. I keep telling him that my mom won’t come back and the next time he tells me that I should hope that he and my mom get back together I would say “Dad, mom dosnt want u anywhere near her and u should accept it and move on”.
Here are what netizens think:
- Your dad sounds like a very toxic, selfish person. Work on setting up boundaries with him because he is just going to keep pushing. He doesn’t care how anybody else feels.
- At the same time, your dad seems clueless. All you’d be doing is making him upset.