A netizen shared how “a wife” has been cheating on her husband and now she is demanding a divorce.
Here is the story
I need opinions and advice. For the past year let’s just say a wife has been “chatting” with a guy who was said to just be a friend.
However it was came into realisation that this was more than just a “companion”. Love messages were exchanged between the 2 parties.
When confronted, the wife blamed it saying that she lost her young days to marriage and that just because she has kids that does not deters her from living her life.
Their life was fun and enjoyable before she started messaging and calling this guy. Despite having kids who all persuaded her not to keep in contact with this guy, she does not listen or even if she does, it’s empty promises where she spends all her time texting and calling him in secret.
Now she’s claiming for a divorce when she is the one who cheated. The husband and wife are pretty old in their 50s already. The husband does not want to let go and still clings on the little hope left that she will stop keeping in touch with the guy.
Just to let you know, the guy is not in the same country, he has a family with kids as well and works as a taxi driver in a different country from where he was born.
Many people tried talking to the husband and wife to resolve issues but nothing would work because the wife would not leave the guy.
She bought multiple phones to secretly meet in touch with him during work hours and on the way home to avoid suspicions.
When the divorce matter was raised by the wife, the husband suggested that she paid 50-50 of everything as he contributed majority expenditures of the house and electricity.
When she suggested to live separately, she did not pursue it as she did not have enough money to pay the rent.
The husband tries to bring the spark back in the marriage but the wife does not cooperate or tries she would just ignore and not speak.
She acts very formally towards her kids as well. The atmosphere in the house now is pretty dead.
What do you think should be done? Or any suggestions to improve the family life?