Happily married with 1 kid at 2 years old.
However, things has sort of change after the birth of our child. First year was still fine. Into the 2nd year, I’ve developed eczema affecting about 10-20% of my body. I’ve heard stories of how hormones could affect the body after giving birth.
But my husband just keep telling me to stop using this excuse.
2nd year after, I realized my husband is not into any bedroom stories anymore. During our dating younger days, it can get so passionate for consecutive days. Today, I think it’s probably 3 months since we done the deed. I am quite a needy person, to the extend that I have to relief myself in the bathroom while hubby is outside watching his Netflix.
Don’t doubt me, I’ve tried ways to get him turned on. Sexy lingerie, taking initiative with BJ and stripping. You can name anything. All to return with, “I’m very tired”. Anyway, both of us are working. Also, we don’t go to bed the same time and by the time he head to sleep, i am already in my deep sleep.
He is still a good father where he would plan all the family outing and bringing the kid to many places. I can be quite confident that there is no chance of mistress. He is mostly at home. WFH like 3/4 days per week. He spend his free time watching Netflix. Even if I were to go home at any weird timing, he is alone at home. House is also equip with camera to check any visitors.
Only one incident recently, he probably accidentally blunt out, “look at your body, which man will be turned on?” This really lead me to be very depressed. I did not ask for eczema at the first place. And till date, there is no full cure for eczema.
He does claim that he wants to have another child.
What should be the healthy times for married couples per month?
If S life is unhealthy for a couple, should we stay in marriage even other aspects are still happy?
I am really confused. What should I do?