Found Husband’s Tinder
What should I do now? One week ago I(24F) had a friend messaged me and told me that she found my husbands(29M)Tinder account.
We have almost been married for 6 years. I confronted him and he played it off as it was an old account that he used before we were married.
Except the picture was a picture from 3 years ago of us together with me cropped out.
He said that he used the account 3 years ago while I was pregnant and going through a major episode.
But he said he was not on it for almost three years before our child was born. Everyone I talked to said his account had been active.
We talked and I gave him a change to be honest, he said that was it. I told him to delete everything because if I ever saw anything again that suggested he cheated then it would be a divorce.
Last night I saw messages dating back to Nov 2021 to April 8th 2022 (the day before I confronted him) talking to girls, exchanging pictures, and planning to meet up with them.
Lots of “Good Morning” and “I’ve missed you messages” but he swears it’s a kink to set up meeting for sex but that he’s never gone through with it.
Even though some of the messages were, “Okay I’m here, Which hotel room is yours?” He’s been saying that he has not done anything since we talked last weekend.
I told him he can take the easy way out we will get divorced or we can totally overhaul our marriage. What should I do now?