Not sure how to tell my wife the truth
The past 2 years, as work from home became the norm, I began to have a lot of time to do what I wanted to do behind my wife’s back. It was like a liberation and I enjoyed every single moment.
The story started with my wife very often catching me looking at the photos of other very pretty women for long hours and chatting with them on facebook. I kept a different facebook identity for that purpose without her knowledge. So when she checks my facebook, she dont find the conversationd and photos. We had a number of heated exchanges because of this.
Things esclated when she came home and found long strands of hair. I explained to her it was “wind” and “open window”. But she became suspicious I was having an affair because the finding of long hair was quite regular. Once she even caught me with lipstick stains on my shirt. All hell broke lose when she found womens undergarments in the washing machine. She yelled at me that womens instincts are never wrong.
The truth I never told her is that the photos of the very pretty women I look at are my male friends and one of them on the photo is myself when we have our “sisters” day or night out. I am not sure how I can tell her that I dress up as a woman and that the hair she found is from my wig and that the makeup is my own lipstick. The undergarments are also mine. I am not sure how she will react to receive such shocking news. I fathom that it must be worse than I actually having a relationship behind her back?
I am really at cross roads and I am not sure where to start from.