Husband touching himself to my old photos
So my husband and I are great together in bed, our relationship is good as well. We are coming up on a year of marriage and have been together for almost 6.
I struggled with some weight gain about 2 years ago and have been slowly losing it but having a hard time with dedication.
I’m not morbidly overweight. I’m about 68kg, and I used to be 86kg. So I’m within my normal weight but I plan on getting to 60 and then getting stronger I’ve just been dealing with some mental crap.
Anyways when we’re getting it on in bed, sometimes he’ll finish really fast. It doesn’t really bother me at all and I’ve communicated that. But he started like preparing himself before we do it.
He’ll go touch himself and finish first so that he can last longer when we do it, basically which I didn’t have a problem with. But the thing is he used my pictures. Alright cool no issue.
But he was using my skinny pictures… i don’t know if that’s a bad thing? He communicated his concerns with my weight and his pride of my progress.
Some women have expressed how disgusting and awful this is but I don’t really have that big of an issue with it? Especially since I intend on getting back to that same physique.
We talked and he didn’t like the feeling of touching and finishing himself alone since he hadn’t done it in forever and rather just be intimate with me and finish me first then him.
so he doesn’t do this anymore but is it weird he used my old pictures? Thoughts?
Update: I wanna be my best self for myself and him. I am even more grateful for my relationship now and I was extremely grateful even before! This is very motivating.
Also I guess I forgot to mention that he does have some new pictures of me but he says he loves them but he REALLY loves the old ones. Lol. I definitely have struggled with confidence since the weigh gain but I am gaining it back as I lose the weight!
Honestly the whole situation just motivates me to shed the remaining weight. I didn’t like being overweight either. Who does?