Wife can only get intimate if we shower before we f, it makes life difficult for me.
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I have only been with my wife so I don’t know how others do.
My wife has a rule that she can only do it if we have showered before. This makes it difficult to find time for it specially because we have three young kids and busy lives.
Quickies are a no because we have to have showered just right before doing it. Not just wipe or something like that it has to be a shower
It takes a lot of planning to make time for it and it sucks but I of course want to respect her rule but I’m curious about how common it is.
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Netizens’ comments
- After dealing with UTIs and yeast infections in previous relationships, my husband and I always shower before an after and I’ve not had an infection since.
- She’s just one of those woman who likes it clean and fresh… could be self conscious & or she’s just wants to be clean when doing it.
I don’t know if it’s common for most woman, im a woman & I don’t shower every time before BUT for the most part I shower everyday so I’m clean most of the time before we do it. - My wife and I enjoy starting foreplay in the shower. It’s nice to know we are both clean and it feels good washing each other’s bodies. We don’t have kids though, so I understand where you are coming from with the schedule aspect
- It takes 2mins to have a quick shower, I’d suck it up and shower
- My ex husband was like this. I don’t really care if a partner has showered just before, as long as they are not really stinky. If the shower was earlier in the day, and we both worked or did other things before a shower, I won’t usually go down, but PIV is fine.