My wife is an Instagram influencer. She gets a lot of likes and comments and she posts a lot of spicy content.
I’ve told her several times it makes me uncomfortable how much people objectify her online, but I’m not ever gonna tell her she can’t have her insta anymore because it means a lot to her and she works hard at it.
I told her it stings a little when dudes who follow her and also follow me so they know that I’m her husband comment things like “I love you my queen,” and she likes the comments.
Like, I get that it’s just the internet but it still hurts to see other men saying she’s their queen and then to see her encourage it.
Well recently ive decided to try and get past all that and to try and to be more understanding.
So I’ve been liking all the posts and commenting on all of them and replying to other peoples comments on the posts.
Like when I see some guy say “you’re so hawt I wanna suck those things so bad,” instead of getting angry, I try to recognize that he’s paying her a compliment so I’ll reply something like “oh yeah man, me too!”
One guy said “I wanna marry this chick” and I playfully replied “beat you to it ”
She came to me pissed yesterday and demanded to know why I was commenting on all her posts and talking to all the dudes in her comments.
I explained I was trying to be more supportive and that I know that interacting with the posts more and leaving more comments and stuff helps the algorithm and gets her more exposure for her page.
She said she doesn’t need my help. That kinda hurt like damn I’m not even allowed to interact with my own wife’s Instagram posts?
How do I resolve this?