married life
My husband and I are in our late twenties and have been together for years.
Last year, I caught him DM-ing with random girls on IG commenting ‘nice outfit’ ‘looking good’ ,etc.
It broke my trust in him and destroyed my self-confidence. We made up shortly after that and he promised to no longer comment and like any girls picture.
However, yesterday I chanced upon a comment when we were scrolling his insta activities on his phone. My husband commented ‘so pretty’ on one of the girls post again.
When I pointed this out, he is upset because he think that I dont respect his privacy and dont trust him.
I can only share it here because we have the same circle of friends and I dont want to let our family know about it.
Is this appropriate or am I just overreacting? The fact that he doesnt try to hide anything means I should accept it?
Here are what netizens think:
- Congrats, he gave u the green light to do the sameÂ
- His fart would probably break your trust as well
- You should go and like and comment on handsome young dudes as well. Make it a privacy and don’t let him know.
- Easy, just take over his account and delete all his comments on the sexy gals or those profile that you doesn’t like. Afterall u r the one he marry not these sluts. What he did at work as long as u doesn’t know is his own business. He want to ogle at who is his own shit. And if you know, just delete if it makes you happy. You can’t stop him from doing what he like but u can focus to do what you like. Win win situation for both, no point to keep argue or cause a strain at the marriage because of this.
- He is just not respecting you, pure and simple….No mystery to it. If he respect you, he won’t go around commenting on other women’s fashion sense and how pretty they look etc.
- I think your stand is that you feel that he can find them pretty but he shouldnt post a comment, am i right? maybe you are just afraid that common friends/relatives see it? Coz it sounds like an ego thing to me.