We are not native speakers and so do forgive any inconsistencies in the language. Both me and my wife were planning to visit my mother who lives significantly further away from us at Tampines, it is a 2 hour journey by public transport and around 1 hour drive if traffic is bad.
Before going I told my wife to not chug water because we can’t be stopping every 2 minutes for her to find a place to pee.
She pretended to heed my request and then fooled me by bringing an extra large bottle of berry juice. Then she said that she would be able to control it , and in return I told her if she wanted to pee I wouldn’t be stopping and she agreed.
Guess what 10 mins into the drive she already feels like peeing, the thing is we are in mid traffic and it would be hard to find a place. Plus, if we constantly made stops we wouldnt be able to get to my mother’s house even by the evening. The traffic congestion is really bad over here. I roll my eyes and tell her this is exactly why I told her not to drink too much.
Then she goes on to ask if she can switch to the backseat and pee into a spare bottle. I thought that was absolutely disgusting because it obviously will spill and I told her straightforwardly that she cant do it in my car.
She then gets all pouty and mad and pretends to hug her a stomach and exaggerate to fake bladder pain. I eventually did find a place but only another place for her to go after the traffic subside. She was super angry and told me I was “endagering her” , but at least for the rest of the ride she learned her lesson and did not chug too much juice as before.
The drive from 1 hour became 2 hours I had to stopped twice for her to go to the toilet, yes I had to exit the highway twice for her.
She came in to visit my mother red-faced so when my mother asked and she explained , my mother pulled me aside and told me I was being a evil person and I should have helped her instead of being rude. I told her that I already advised my wife before but she was too stubborn to listen and defied what I told her. I also thought it was unhygienic to let her pee in my car.Since this is still quite conflicting because I can’t come to a consensus I don’t know if I’m in the wrong or she is.
It’s not that I didn’t want to take breaks we were planning to stop every few minutes as opposed to again and again multiple times just so she could pee. NO, I DO NOT POLICE HER PEE or whatever. With the congestion it is difficult to keep turning and making detours, we also weren’t planning to stay and wanted to return home before midnight. If we keep making stops how is that possible?