Feeling hopeless & Not being proud of
I am 39, a mother of 3 whose age from 14, 12 and 5yrs old..I have been married for 14 yrs and never once i was happy in my marriage due to my husband unfaithfulness, abused me and my kids years back but things is different now as i have finally apply ppo and now CPS is now working closely with my kids and lately due to the situation giving, my husband eventually able to come home on certain days just to ensure the safety of myself and my 3 kids..Lately everything was fine and i started to believe my husband after many wrong doing he have done and i am giving him a chance to prove that he is wiling to change and to be faithful, loving me and my kids..My husband with the kids is doing great but sadly my husband started to drift apart from..No much hug, love and kiss me..I always felt that i am like a dirt to him..is always me who comes to him and take care of his heart but when comes to me, he just treat me like a chicken..If he want to have S with me, he just do it and if not he just give excuses or move away..Not sure if he still sleep around just like how he used to be when i pregnant with all my 3 kids..
I am tired to be his doormat and i am not sure if he really proud to have me in his life for once or ever love me..I am living for my 3 kids now..I need attention and to be loved and appreciated
#whattodonext# Should i leave him?
Here are what netizens think:
- Yes, leave him. No one deserves to be treated like a doormat or a piece of rag. You gave him the best part of your youth, gave him 3 beautiful children, and all you get back from him is sadness and grief all these years. Please live for yourself. Kids will grow up and eventually have their own lives too. It’s never too late to start anew.
- You have made the first step to a better future by applying for PPO and CPS. Now you need to gather the courage to leave as soon as possible, starting by distancing yourself emotionally from him. People rarely change. Since he has shown you the type of person he is, you have to accept it and not hope he will improve.
- There’s no longer a relationship, it’s just a shell. A marriage on paper only. You can decide for yourself if this is the long term path for you and your kids, or would you like to create a new path and find happiness again.
- You need to love yourself more. Not ask questions about, I don’t know if he is ever proud or you or love you.
- Because a man who sleeps around, just do not have respect for you.