Getting furious with my husband over how messy he left the kitchen counter and then exploding when he pointed out how “messy” I made the bathroom?
Last night my husband went out, drinking with his friends and got home at like 1 AM and decided to make himself a frozen pizza.
When I got up, it literally look like a bomb had gone off in the kitchen. I worked about 60 hours this week and as soon as I got home, I clean the kitchen because tomorrow I’m hosting my family for my dad’s birthday.
Even though my husband was hung over, I roasted him out of bed and was livid at what a mess he made. I don’t think I’ve been that mad at him in a very, very long time.
I can admit that he was hung over and probably not thinking straight, but when he said that before, I start yelling at him over, what a mess he made over the kitchen counter, I need to take a look at the bathroom counter because he can’t even and I “take a shit in there in the morning” without stepping over stuff.
I lost it.
Not only because the bathroom is messy because it takes me forever to to get ready in the mornings but the bathroom is my space.
That’s how he needs to look at it. It’s my place where I get to do what I want and be as free as I want and if it becomes a mess then, so what, no big deal.
We spent the better part of the morning yelling at each other and finally he told me he was too hung over to deal with us and he was going over to his brothers house and not to expect him home for my dad‘s birthday.
I’ve been angry texting him all afternoon and finally responded that if I don’t understand why I’m in the wrong for starting this whole thing, then I need to really “check myself.”