WIFE SICK OF BEING STAY-HOME MUM, HAVE TO CLEAN UP AFTER BABY AND HUSBAND ALL THE TIME

I’m so tired being SAHM

I’m so tired of my life at the moment. It feels like cleaning never ends. I’m tired of waking up with a baby 2-5 times at night. I haven’t have time for myself for months. My husband complain that I have too much own time.

I’m tired that my husband doesn’t clean up after himself. He can’t even put his dirty clothes in the laundry.

I just got so angry and emptied his whole wardrobe on the floor and now I have to clean it up too before he comes home from work.

I just need to get this out of my system. My friends are tired for me complaining for stuff. I also have back problems at the moment.

Netizens’ comments

• Can relate. Sounds like you’re just exhausted and undervalued. Unfortunately so many see SAHM as a luxury because you’re “not working”. It’s a crock of 💩. If he doesn’t see that you need a well deserved break, I hope you have close friends or family who will step in and give that break for you. Even if it’s just to have a long bath and a drink without rushing! I have nearly 10yo twins, widowed parent now. But as babies, I needed interaction with other adults, ppl to hang with me or spend time with me. Coz ppl only see you as a mum and forget about you as an individual. Hang in there babe, not alone!
• Sounds like you’re a mom of 2 instead of a wife and mom. I’m really sorry that you’re dealing with this. Maybe one weekend, take some time for yourself and leave the baby at home with your husband. Let him clean up and take care of the baby while you enjoy some much needed YOU time!
• Quit cleaning up after him and quit being his maid. This man doesn’t give a damn about you. Give your back a rest. You can beak a leg and it will heal but a back will not. It could shut down your mobility and the ability to care for yourself. Focus on your exit plan, yourself, and your children.
• Can you go stay with family for a while? Sounds like he had a baby just to trap you because he’s not interested in being involved in his child’s life. He’s not interested as seeing you as a team.