Me and my wife have been together for just over 10 years, we got together in school at age 15. We have two children and life has always been great, until this year.
We got into minor financial problems like most people do. We struggled for a few years and eventually we were offered money from her boss to pay off credit card debt.
Over the next year we would pay it back to him as we could but apparently it wasn’t good enough. That brings us to today..
Now I’ve always known her boss had feelings for her, she is very beautiful and attractive. I’ve just learned after having a strong feeling and looking at her phone that she has sent pictures (meant for my eyes only) and performed intimate favors (oral) because she felt she needed to make up for the owed money.
I’m shattered and I don’t know how to process this. She was my first serious girlfriend and the only one I’ve ever been with. I feel so betrayed but I still love her with everything I’ve got.
I’m not sure anyone will read this but if you do, what’s your opinion?
Netizens’ comments
- that little voice in your head that’s telling you to end it and move on DO NOT PUSH IT away. what happened happened and there’s no changing it, yes there’s more to the story but do not block out what you know is right and do not suck up (pun intended) to your wife, she knew what she was doing and she’s using the fact she owed money as an excuse to do what she wanted to do.
- Your wife’s boss knew what he was doing and she fell right into the palm of his hand. I would confront her and discuss how she basically prostituted herself to pay off the credit card debt.
- First girlfriends aren’t gonna be your last. At least your debt is paid off now. Leave it to be her problem to pay him back!