I (23f) have had an insane libido spike over the last few months and its starting to get annoying.
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I went from wanting to f- my husband maybe once a week to now wanting to tear him apart and gobble him up every day.
My husband can’t keep up with me anymore i’ve turned to toys and dirty novels to satiate that itch but it only helps for a bit.
I’m not sure what else there is to do other than just ignore it.
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- Have any significant changes occurred in your diet/lifestyle when this began? Could you be pregnant?
- First off there is nothing wrong with you. I, personally, have a significantly higher libido than my partner and there are times that it goes to zero for no apparent reason and times it goes through the roof. I have felt your frustration and it’s tough.
It sounds weird but do some form of meditation on where it’s coming from, sit with the thoughts. Large changes can be exciting and that excitement can show up differently for people. If there are new fantasies, maybe make a plan to act on some of them. There is nothing wrong with self pleasure too. It’s not fair to force someone to do more than they are comfortable with but it’s not fair to deny our own desires too.
Last thing, there is an idea in psychology that creativity and energy are similar in how they influence our brains. If you have hobbies or projects or something that can tap into creativity or imagination and give it some space to burn up that extra desire. - Get a full blood test. Talk to your OB just to rule out anything that might be a larger issue.
A sudden change in anything is usually a good flag to have a full physical done.