A netizen shared how she found messages between her husband and another woman from his office, and now she thinks he is cheating.
Here is the story:
Hi, I’m a married woman with kids. To cut the story short, I need help in analyzing if I’m being over paranoid.
As I do not check my husband’s phone, 2 months ago, I was putting his phone to charge and I saw a weird notification.
I opened up from the Microsoft apps and saw numerous missed calls from a certain woman that I have never heard before. As my husband often told me that there are only the same few women in the office I heard about. I started worrying and asked him.
To my surprise, it turned out to be a female friend of hers that he approached to fill up a certain role in his company. She has worked over a year in that company and yet my husband has never mentioned this friend.
He explained that those phone calls are due to meetings conducted online as she can’t find him. However, despite me asking him about work over the last few years. It’s always the same boring reply. I was busy caring for my newborn child last year when he got her into this company. I feel betrayed.
He explained and I accepted. However, weeks later, I accidentally saw their conversation in WhatsApp too.
Mostly work-related but this female friend was telling him about the sleepless night she had due to work. Non-work-related? And she’s newly married too. The chat could be every other day due to their work-related meetings.
Having said so much, though she’s in a different branch office, then I found out too that they pretty much see each other online due to meetings conducted between a few of them only and occasionally he will have to drop by her branch office too. (He initially told me it’s just to fill up the role which has not much contact).
Dear readers, I do admit I’m worried and having low confidence as I have just recently given birth a year ago. He’s always portrayed as a man who doesn’t have many female friends and is always home with us therefore this came too sudden. Despite him assuring that there’s nothing going on, he starts drawing a line between.
Am I over paranoid?