Husband is constantly lying to me
Not sure if anyone encounters the same as me. I have a husband who is constantly lying to me about everything. From going out every friday for dinner with all his bosses but actually is with his colleagues (same level as him) & staffs. His staffs are all females and i told him before that i am okay with him having lunch or having after work chill out just do not lie to me.
To me i feel, if there is nothing to hide, he can just say their names and this i have also talk to him about it.
After work everyday, he won’t come home immediately. He will send his staff /staffs home and i understand if its along the way, i am okay too but the thing is sometimes its really not along the way.
I am able to see from his timeline on where he goes and sometimes when i called to check if he is on the way home and if he is directly from work, he would say yes but obviously he left office early and went coffee shop to drink and send his staffs home.
I am not a controlling wife as i do not say no to everything he does or where is goes. He has 100% freedom. All i requested from him was to inform me, i don’t think this is too much to ask.
The thing is, why need to lie?
Here are what netizens think:
- Immediate tell tale sign. Why does he need to send his staff home? Is he the chauffeur? Especially in this time of rising petrol costs and more so if it’s out of the way.
- He’s seeing someone else for sure!
- Teach u a trick. Man balls supplies are limited. So if after the friday session, u see the volume (ml) goes down, likely its already expense off earlier.