Should I leave my husband?
I’m in my mid forties. My husband doesn’t touch me. He watches P but he just doesn’t want to touch me. We haven’t had S for over 10 years. I don’t talk to him about my feelings because he doesn’t listen. He tells me about his daily life and work though.
He cooks for me and’s helps me out at home. We’re living like friends for companionship. Is this normal? Is it too late for me to start over?
Here are what netizens think:
- A woman is cheated on by her husband.She’s devastated. She hears that there’s a wise monk who lives up in a mountain, she decides to consult him.
After a few days of travelling, she reaches the top and meets the wise monk. “I spent my whole life with him, my youth was dedicated supporting him, taking care of him. And now he has left me for another woman. My life is stolen, and I’m left with nothing. I don’t know what to do”.
The monk gives her a cookie and asks her to eat it. After she finishes eating, he asks: Was the cookie delicious?”
“Yes”- she answers.
“Do you want another one?”
“Sure.”
After she finishes that, he asks, “Do you want one with nuts?”
After she finishes another three exotic varieties, the monk looks her in the eye and says “Do you see the problem now?”
The woman thinks for a while, and then slowly speaks. “I guess human nature is greedy. You get one, then you want more, maybe a new one, bigger one, a better one and so on. It’s never enough. And nothing lasts forever, everything is finite. We should be aware of this and not disappointed. “
The monk shakes his head.
“No, I mean you are too fat, you should eat less.”
- At least he still share with you abt his work stuffs and help with chores. Not too bad already sista. Mine don’t bother to do anything n he dont even talk about his work to me. Worse part is he invited his parents to stay with us without discussing prior. It’s a misery.
- Maybe try roleplay. First you need uniforms. Preferably all white. If not blue also can.