“I met my wife in NTU, her sister is 2 years older than her also NTU.
I really hate her sister, she recently bought a condo when she cannot afford it and took money from their relative to pay.
I was thinking why would you do that, if you cannot afford it just live in a normal hdb flat.
She is a typical freeloader, goes to restaurant and expects people to pay for her food.
It’s just a mentality of being spoilt, why would you choose an expensive restaurant to eat and not pay for your own share.
I’m okay to pick up a bill after anybody usually, but the irks of the sister always choosing restaurant and after finishing her food she just walks off and expect me to pick up the tab.
Not even a thank you!
Can anyone tell me how to stop this spoilt attitude of her? Their parents are also the same, they go to the restaurant and order expensive food ie steak and lobsters, while I just settle for a cheaper noodle.
I am just glad that my wife is not like her sister.”
Here are what netizens think:
- Marriage is ugly business. If you are that concerned better don’t marry and get them as family. Otherwise learn to embrace them like your own. Then you won’t feel so frustrated. If you marry her you will spend a lifetime nursing buried hate and distaste that will surface from time to time. Suffering becomes self courted.
- Don’t say her until so bad. She is only bad if U directly ask her to treat U and she doesn’t. Some people are like that.
- Marrying self entitled person will give you lifetime sufferings. Also your kids will suffer at the hands of their self entitled parent for more than 20yrs from birth. Self entitled people should be banned from marriages and parenthood.