Would guys judge a 27 year old woman who hasn’t been active in the bedroom for four years? Feeling too embarrassed to even attempt to end this dry spell
For context I’m not asking about women who are inexperienced- I was very active in bed with committed partners before this, and really loved that nasty side of me.
After one too many heartbreaks/traumatic events I think I closed myself off entirely, and wouldn’t even know how to begin dating etc.
I’ve always been told that “so many guys would be interested” but i cannot even remember the last time a guy checked me out or hit on me, and I feel so pathetic.
FINALLY I want to flirt and date and f around with men but I’m scared of rejection and just shut down the possibility right away.
My main question is, do guys judge women for having long (very long) dry spells?
I feel like we see it in media being joked about as an embarrassing problem for men, while women are portrayed to constantly have men interested in sleeping with them.
It’s really taken a hit to my ego, but l’m posting here asking for honesty! Thank you
So my question is, would guys judge an experienced woman for not having any action for 4 years? Or think something is wrong with her?
Netizens’ comments
- Maybe some would but I don’t think it should be anyone’s business. Why would it be anyone’s business whatever u want to do with urself
- I went from 27 to 35 without it. Recently started f-ing again a few months ago with someone that works in the same factory as me.
I was also kinda nervous but I let him know it had been 8 years (we had talked about a week or two prior to us hooking up cos I didn’t want anything to be a surprise.) Hands down, one of the best times ever.
Only reason it wasn’t the best is cos we’ve met up a few more times since then and it’s only gotten better.