I am missing one side of my b–b. What to do?
I (33F) with my boyfriend (37M) for over 10 years.
Diagnosed with Stage 4 inflammatory mammary cancer in September. Went through chemotherapy and got left breast removed.
Treatment is going good. Pathology report shows that the chemo was 100% effective. I maybe in NED.
Obviously I wasn’t active in bed or interested at that time. That kind of happens when you are fighting for your damn life.
Now, my confidence is through the roof. My hair is slowly coming back including my limbo. We are not going to be active in bed until after I heal from hysterectomy surgery.
I am trying to figure out what to do. I am into soft-dom. My bf is into women into corsets and such. Before, he would play with my chests as foreplay before my cancer. That may be a bit difficult now.
I can do prosthetics to wear but it’s not gonna be close. It may be a bit off putting as well.
Suggestions we can try? Thanks!
Netizens’ comments
- Don’t worry. Your man is likely happy to have one to play with, because of the woman it’s attached to. You are the reason he gets turned on. Not your chest.
When you are ready, your play will adapt. - A tattoo over the one side would be pretty damn cool
adorning it in an alternate style could take it from a scar to an asymmetric work of beauty - There’s some lovely lady on here who got implants and an extravagant tattoo after she had a double mastectomy. Maybe not an immediate option, but something you can consider if you’re in the market.
- If he loves you he won’t care about difference
- Glad you’re feeling better. Is it possible that you’re just feeling a little self conscious right now and getting in your own head about this? I think it would be natural to, but sounds like you got a loving man, don’t think this will be an issue at all.
- One is better than none.